Sunday 4 January 2009

Mystery of Narcissism

When an adult is obsessed by self-admiration of his/her physical self and becomes self-centered then he/she is a narcissist. Somehow or rather, many of us fall into this category which can be a pain in the neck to people we are talking to. A narcissist requires excessive attention and admiration, and to exploit people around without feeling of guilt. This is basically seeking personal gratification over the achievement of what he/she possesses.

Is a stripper (exotic dancer), streaker (purposely appearing in nude), flasher (exposing one’s genitals indecently) and exhibitionist or Lady Godiva syndrome (a behaviour of exposing parts of the body to another person) is a narcissist too?

I would rather try to understand why “they” choose to behave that way rather than shaking my head at their behaviours. Why?




Body building is one of the most effective ways to stay fit both in body and mind. The body structure is streamlined creating lean muscle mass will be an intoxicating feeling to see one’s own body transformed to the desired level over a period of months.

Building muscular strength, body building also creates stamina and increases endurance. It also develops a renewed sense of confidence and self-esteem and has the confidence that one can handle anything that comes his way.

When one has achieved the level of fitness, it will be a proud moment to look into a mirror and what beholds is from one’s self-discipline. That will be great!



However, not every man wants to be macho with the bulky load of muscles. As long as one eats well-balanced and nutritious foods with ample nutrients and supplements, there is always a great body. This is one great man too. If he is not carful, he will be blown away!



A sexy woman knows how to use her body language to filter out all the little boys from the real men. A sexy body is definitely different from a hot one. Her skin's elasticity on her sexy body parts; belly, breast and hips are her assets decorated with her luscious hair and her smooth radiant skin is the sure attraction to be salivated upon.

A sexy dress for a prom night or a sexy black dress for a formal occasion on a sexy frame will make girls and women adore their own bodies will be most flattering.

Is she having the Lady Godiva syndrome or it is her prerogative to pamper her own body with a little luxury for attraction?



Girls dancing sensually with a vertical pole are often used in such act. They are streakers performing the sacred art of striptease, so to speak. Hands, hair, butts, breasts, backs, legs, bras, panties, are all going sensuously up and down, in manners playful, posing, elegant, luscious, and naughty.

As she performs, she drives herself wild by her moves in various directions with the pole and activates the soaring temperature for those watching. Such profound inner beauty translates perfectly into an art is the impeccable touch of a streaker.

Docile reptile like snake is not spared for its titillating sensation to slither around her body to enhance her body wriggling with naughty arousal.

I wonder if she will consider Burmese python or anaconda for the act!

An exhibitionist likes to surprise or startle his unsuspected victims. That is part of the sexual thrill he derives looking at shocking faces. Like women who flash their breasts to get a reaction from men are indeed the cruel acts. Such discovery adds to the thrill of going a “little further” because people seem to know no bounds when it comes to sexuality.

Exhibitionist has the seductive trait and deliberately behaving so as to attract attention. She loves to be ogled and such intimidation gives her the sense of pride over her body. Her taut skin and lusciously crafted physique should not be hidden from roving eyes but to exhibit since a woman’s body is her own right endowed by Nature.




Women of all shapes and sizes are attractive in their own ways. And they have their equal rights to exhibit what are “theirs” without having to feel inferior. I would say the rest of the world has gone mad if we fail to realize that they have what it takes too.

You go and tell a fat mama that she is unattractive and you will be suffocated between her bosoms.

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